A renowned English singer-songwriter at 60, discusses gratitude for good fortune, the value of stoicism, and a daydream about being an American trucker.
My typical morning involves …
I start my day with a long walk, then stop for coffee and scrambled eggs somewhere.
I stay optimistic about …
My life. As I age, I realize just how lucky I’ve been in my life. When I envision the upcoming gigs and events in my life, I never fail to acknowledge my good fortune.
What infuriates me …
People who lack kindness, especially in the age of social media. It’s disheartening to see people write disparaging remarks about others without understanding their circumstances. The world could use more kindness.
If I weren’t a singer-songwriter, I would’ve loved to be …
A drummer, or maybe an American trucker. I love driving long distances, and I’ve always enjoyed the changing radio stations during drives across the States.
The habit that has benefitted me most in life …
Being present and appreciative. While I can be hard to deal with at times, I try to remember to be grateful for the life I’ve been blessed with.
The habit I’ve successfully given up …
I no longer crave sweets like I used to. Now, I’m content with a small piece of chocolate and an espresso. My younger self would have consumed the entire chocolate bar.
My sources of happiness are …
Spending time with family and friends. As I age, these moments become increasingly precious. There’s nothing better than enjoying a beach holiday with loved ones and relaxing as the sun sets.
When life becomes difficult, I …
Take a walk, listen to music. Rock music, in particular, has a way of shifting my mood and inspiring me.
The book I recommend everyone to read …
The Road Less Travelled by M Scott Peck. This self-help book, coupled with therapy in my late 20s and early 30s, significantly influenced my perspective on life.
What I’ve changed my mind about in life is …
The misconception that wealth and privilege equate to a problem-free life. Everyone, regardless of their socioeconomic status, faces challenges.
What keeps me awake at night …
Overeating or drinking. Otherwise, I sleep well unless I’m excited about a new track I’m working on.
What drives me the most is …
The fear of losing everything I’ve worked for. My current success wasn’t guaranteed. I know it won’t last forever, but I wonder how long I can hold on to it.
My parents instilled in me …
A strong work ethic and stoicism. They also taught me the value of introspection before revealing my thoughts and feelings to others.
I believe that …
The world as we know it is just a fraction of the reality. I believe it’s crucial to navigate life independently because nobody else will do it for you.
I’d advise my younger self …
To enjoy my youth more. Despite the challenges I faced as a young artist, I wouldn’t change anything about my past as it has shaped who I am today.
